Hi there! I'm Lisa Lisson, and I'm passionate about helping people like you discover their ancestors and expand their family tree without feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about the next steps.
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🔎Breaking Through the Maiden Name Brick Wall!
Published about 1 month ago • 4 min read
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I spent several late nights this week hunting for my third great-grandmother's maiden name. You know how these searches go - I started with the usual records, but birth certificates, marriage records, and death certificates turned up empty. Now I'm diving into some pretty unusual places, following leads that most researchers might skip right over.
Sometimes the best genealogy discoveries happen when we venture off the beaten path!
But here's the good news – those maiden names aren't necessarily lost forever. As genealogists, we often focus on the standard birth, marriage, and death records, but our female ancestors left traces of their identities in some surprising places.
This week, I'm excited to share some lesser-known resources and strategies that might just help you break through those brick walls and finally discover who your grandmother or great-grandmother was before she married. Plus, I've got a fantastic research tool to tell you about that most genealogists overlook!
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Finding those elusive female ancestors can feel impossible when their maiden names seem lost to history. If you're stuck trying to trace your grandmother or great-grandmother's family line, I've got good news - those names may not be as lost as you think!
In my latest blog post, I'm sharing 3 surprising places where your ancestor's maiden name might be hiding:
Religious records that go far beyond basic parish registers
Gravestone research secrets most genealogists overlook
An often-forgotten family connection that could hold the key
Plus, I'll walk you through uncovering maiden names, including which traditional records to check first and advanced tips for making the most of special collections and archives.
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When searching for your female ancestors, don't overlook their social connections! Women often participated in church groups, ladies' aid societies, and community organizations. These groups frequently documented their activities in:
Meeting minutes with member lists
Social columns in local newspapers
Charity event programs and reports
Group photographs with names
Membership directories
Next time you hit a brick wall with a female ancestor, try researching the social organizations in her community. Women's groups sometimes listed members by both married and maiden names, especially in smaller communities where everyone knew each other.
Looking for those hard-to-find female ancestors? ArchiveGrid is your free gateway to over 7 million records in special collections worldwide. This powerful tool helps you:
Find personal papers and letters mentioning maiden names
Locate donated family Bibles and diaries
Discover which repositories hold family collections
Actionable genealogy advice that you'll want to save in a special Gmail folder to grow your healthy family tree, sent weekly to 10,000+ readers.
Hi there! I'm Lisa Lisson, and I'm passionate about helping people like you discover their ancestors and expand their family tree without feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about the next steps.
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