Stop boring your family with genealogy facts! 😲


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Hi Reader,

I'm not much of a dancer, but this week I got to do the "genealogy happy dance"! 💃I made a huge discovery on one of my husband's ancestral lines. My hours (and hours!) of research involved city directories, newspapers, and a smidge of oral history.

To be honest, it also involved a bit of luck. I was not even looking for this particular family discovery --> a famous gangster! I was looking for something else entirely, but these serendipitous finds are my favorite.

Watch for a video coming soon about my discovery.

Have you made an awesome genealogy discovery recently? Hit reply and let me know, so I can celebrate with you.

📽️NEW VIDEO

FACTS VS FAMILY STORIES

When I share dry genealogy facts with my adult children, their eyes glaze over quickly. But mention a great-grandmother who accidentally destroyed a car door handle on the way to her driving test? Suddenly they're all ears.

This week's video tackles an important question every genealogist faces: Are you just collecting facts, or are you creating meaningful family connections?

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why research alone falls short (even when you love those dusty courthouse records)
  • How storytelling provides the emotional connection that facts can't
  • The secret to getting younger generations interested in family history
  • Why you need BOTH research and stories to build a lasting family legacy

The truth is, our families remember stories, not dates. When we combine solid research with compelling narratives, we create something powerful that connects generations and actually makes our research stronger.

👀Watch Research vs. Storytelling: Why You Need BOTH

🛒IN THE SHOP

SUMMER FAMILY TREE CLEANUP

Family reunion season is coming fast! Is your family tree ready to share, or does it need some serious TLC first?

My Genealogy Audit service is now available with special summer pricing - perfect timing to get your tree polished before those family gatherings where everyone asks about "the family history."

During your personalized audit, I'll help you:

  • Identify and fix common research errors that weaken your tree
  • Spot missing documentation that leaves your findings vulnerable
  • Organize your research notes so you can actually find what you need
  • Create a priority action plan for your strongest research leads

Summer Special: I'm offering 😎 special summer pricing on all audit packages when you book before June 15th. Because nobody wants to show up to the family reunion with a messy family tree!

🤝 TOGETHER WITH STORIED*

WHAT GENEALOGY CHARTS MISS

Your ancestors were more than birth dates and marriage records. They were people who changed their name spellings, refused to adjust clocks, and created the unique stories that shaped your family. Admit it, it’s those quirky ancestors that are your favorites!

Storied gives you a place to document these meaningful details that traditional family history often overlooks.

* = Promoted

💡GENEALOGY TIP

SMART NOTE-TAKING FOR GENEALOGY CONVERSATIONS

Whether you're chatting with fellow researchers at a genealogy society meeting or interviewing Uncle Joe about family stories, solid note-taking can make or break your research success.

Here's my go-to system using Google Keep (my favorite because it syncs everywhere and I can voice-record notes on the fly):

  • Before the conversation: Create a new note with the person's name, date, and location
  • During: Jot down key facts, but don't stop the flow - capture the story first, verify details later
  • After: Within 24 hours, review and expand your notes while the conversation is fresh

Pro tip: Use voice recording in Google Keep when your hands are busy. Just tap the microphone icon and it transcribes automatically.

Find MORE genealogy tips in 14 of the Best Genealogy Tips to Find Your Ancestors.

💗WHAT I'M LOVING THIS WEEK

LISA'S LINEUP

💻Free Genealogy Webinar - 10 New Tools for New York Research​ presented by Kory Meyerink. Mark your calendar for Wed, May 28, 2025: 2:00 pm ET. Registration is required.

💡 Productivity Tip I'm Stealing: The "one-ancestor rule" - focusing research on just ONE person per session instead of jumping around the family tree. Sounds obvious, but it's a game-changer for actually making progress.

📚The National Archives is hosting their free 2025 Genealogy Series with live broadcasts on YouTube throughout May and June - no reservations needed! These sessions cover federal records research tools for all skill levels. It's the perfect time to level up your research skills.

The pursuit of your genealogy doesn't have to be a solo adventure. Let's work together to uncover those family stories and build connections that last.

Happy Ancestor Hunting!

Lisa

Lisa Lisson

Genealogy Researcher, Author & Speaker

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